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<\/p>\nA review of “Heads In Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles and So-Called Hospitality” by Jacob Tomsky.<\/p>\n
Perhaps the best, and only good one-liner of the entire book comes on page 14: “hotels are methadone clinics for the travel addicted.” I could relate instantly when reading this line and had high hopes that this would be a good read right up my alley.<\/p>\n
In the introduction, Tomsky says, “To protect the guilty and innocent alike, I have deconstructed all hotels and rebuilt them into personal properties, changed all names and shredded all personalities, creating a book of amalgams that, working together, establish, essentially, a world of truth.” I think the key word to this author’s note is “essentially.” As you read the book, which is excruciatingly slow, you’ll see that Tomsky drops names like Paul McCartney and Brian Wilson (of Beach Boy fame) when it’s convenient and references the Ritz Carlton and other hotels when it suits him. He talks about his first job as a valet at Copeland’s in New Orleans \u2013 there’s actually a Copeland’s in New Orleans. Doesn’t seem like he tried very hard to protect anyone if you ask me. In fact, follow the facts, do the math and you can make some really good assumptions about which hotels he’s worked for.<\/p>\n
If you believe Tomsky, everyone in the hospitality industry is out to make a buck and will hustle a guest if it means making an extra dollar or two. Not feeling gratuitous? Watch out! Tomsky tells how unhappy hotel employees like to pay these “cheap” guests back. If you’re rude or insulting, these angry agents will make your stay a living hell. How do they do this you ask? According to Tomsky they use your toothbrush to clean the floor, assign you to a room which will ensure your phone rings all night long (don’t ever stay in a room that starts with a 1 followed by the area code of the city you’re in. In New York, Tomsky would assign guests to room 1212 ensuring that when a guest forgets to dial the 9 or 8 or whatever # you need to dial they ring your room 1-212-555-5555.)<\/p>\n
Tomsky goes on about the hotel valets for what felt like chapters and mentions them over and over again. I’m just not that interested in the valets! Tomsky tells of squealing tires, crashes, scrapes and dings and of course, how to tip appropriately. There are stories about fights, sex, drugs (lots of drugs), lies and theft. Tomsky shares his personal escapades which include cocaine use, excessive alcohol abuse, anger counseling, love affairs and as the title alludes to, hustles. Lots and lots of hustles.<\/p>\n
Tomsky is the king of the hotel hustle, according to himself. If he hasn’t been taught the hustle by a bellman or valet, he’ll invent it himself. While most of his hustles are pulled on guests, many are aimed at the hotels he’s working for. Throughout the book, Tomsky shares these hustles and some so-called “industry secrets” with the reader. Read the book and you yourself can learn how to steal from the mini-bar, watch in-room movies for free, and hoard amenities from the housekeeping carts and more.<\/p>\n
Want an upgrade? Free wine? A fee waived? Tomsky says there’s no need to give an explanation, make up a story or beg\u2026just tip the front desk agent. If you believe Tomsky, you should tip the front desk before anyone else\u2026after all, they are the ones who control the computers.<\/p>\n
Ever been charged for a mini-bar item you didn’t consume? It was probably Tomsky, or someone like him. He claims he’s eaten M&Ms right out of your mini-bar which is why hotels never argue about removing mini-bar charges from your bill \u2013 because they know their employees are thieves.<\/p>\n
Tomsky comes off as racist and filled with hate as you read his descriptions of hotel guests and employees who are, unlike him, not white, don’t speak English or are in any way different. He frequently reinforces stereotypes and makes fun of foreign speakers. In Chapter 2 he mocks a couple from Japan writing, “‘Contrack.’ We Sweep Rye Hee On Froor.'” The mocking is unnecessary in retelling the story and says more about the author than the industry. Tomsky uses unnecessary and gratuitous vulgar language throughout the entire book.<\/p>\n
If you believe Tomsky’s claims, you’ll never drink out of a glass in your hotel room again (wonder why the glasses never have water stains? According to Tomsky they use furniture polish to clean them), never forget to tip anyone \u2013 and I mean ANYONE \u2013 or complain again. The fact is, the book should probably be called Hotels: Who to Tip, How to Tip and How Much to Tip.<\/p>\n
Perhaps my efforts to purchase the book should have been a forewarning. In one of the largest Barnes & Noble in the US, no one had heard of the book, could find the book or even tell me where to begin looking for it. Their computer said it was in New Arrivals, it wasn’t. The manager said they moved it (and by it, I mean the 1 copy they got) to travel. It wasn’t there. Someone else said it was moved to a special section because all of the holiday books were out \u2013 nope. I finally found someone who told me they took it off the sales floor because they only got 1 copy and needed to make room for new books. I ended up downloading the book from iTunes.<\/p>\n
Self-described as a veteran of the hotel industry full of industry secrets, Tomsky has only worked for hotels for the past 10 years \u2013 according to his own website. Veteran? I don’t think so. Full of industry secrets? I’m sure some of his claims are true. Frankly I think his twitter profile is probably the most accurate self-description \u2026Czar of bullshit. At least that’s how I felt after reading his book.<\/p>\n
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In my opinion, there’s a reason booksellers didn’t stock up on this one \u2013 it’s not a good read<\/p>\n
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The comments for this post were lost during my move from BoardingArea.com. \u00a0Here they are:<\/p>\n
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SgFm<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nAnd, also a self described \u201csemi-alcoholic\u201d. Actually, from his descriptions of his benders, I think it would safe to say he is an alcoholic.
\nI think he is an angry, sad person with a real axe to grind. Anything he describes in his book needs to be viewed through that lens.
\nI would not recommend the book, having read it cover to cover.<\/p>\n
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Gary V<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nThe book showcases how much of an a-hole this guy really is.<\/p>\n
I agree with you, he\u2019s a czar of bullshit.<\/p>\n
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John<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nDid you see the piece on 20\/20 by Chris Cuomo? It spoke to the furniture polish for the glasses too.<\/p>\n
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Denise L<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI was thinking of buying it as a Christmas present. Thanks for saving me the money!<\/p>\n
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SBG<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nWould you recommend an alternative book? Or author. Seems like an intriguing topic<\/p>\n
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TravelWriterAmy<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nThe book is so poorly written. I think this guy is a joke. I totally agree with you, how can he be considered a veteran after only 10 years in the industry. I also agree that the foul language is excessive and the book should come with a warning! BORING<\/p>\n
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Stacey @VeryGoodPoints<\/a><\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\n@SBG -I haven\u2019t found an alternative yet\u2026but I suspect there will be others to follow.<\/p>\n
Stacey @VeryGoodPoints<\/a><\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\n@Denise L\u2026good call on passing on this one. Get them a season of Hotel Impossible w\/host Anthony Melchiori instead.<\/p>\n
Stacey @VeryGoodPoints<\/a><\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\n@John \u2013 I missed it!! I\u2019ll look online. Otherwise you\u2019ll have to fill me in.<\/p>\n
Stacey @VeryGoodPoints<\/a><\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\n@SGFM \u2013 totally agree\u2026angry and bitter.<\/p>\n
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Alex L<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI heard about this book on WNYC (the New York NPR station), and was intrigued as well. I guess I\u2019ll just skim trough if I see it at a book store.<\/p>\n
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ElementaryTravel<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nMy wife read the book and told me not to waste my time on it.<\/p>\n
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SPS<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI worked as a hotel concierge in the Orlando\/Disney area for many years. I worked at the Marriott World Center, the DoubleTree Suites, the Hilton LBV and a few others. I don\u2019t agree with anything in this book. I bought the book because I was intrigued about what he would \u201creveal\u201d about the industry. He revealed very little truth.<\/p>\n
Yes there are people who drink, so heavily. Yes there are some drug users. Yes there are people who look for any way to make extra money. But he makes the entire industry look terrible and the majority of us are nothing like this jerk.<\/p>\n
I hope he never gets a job in the hospitality industry again. He\u2019s a bitter guy who doesn\u2019t deserve the attention he\u2019s getting.<\/p>\n
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HotelHound<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nMy guess is that he worked at the Ritz Carlton and called it out by name as a decoy. It was built about 5 years before Katrina, so the timeline would fit.<\/p>\n
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GeorgeF<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI am so glad that 99% of the people I run into at hotels are nothing like this guy!<\/p>\n
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JT<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nMy mom bought it for me and it has taken me two weeks to read 100 pages and I\u2019m NOT a slow reader.<\/p>\n
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Stephen Slater<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\ntrust me, I know about burn out and this guy is burned out. He needs a break!<\/p>\n
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WebFlyer<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI have only read 1\/2 the book so far, but have to agree with your review. It is slow reading so far and I\u2019m so tired of hearing the valet guys.<\/p>\n
Also, if this guy has published under his own name, his real name, don\u2019t you think the hotels he worked with could come after him for some of his \u201chustles\u201d which I prefer to call crimes?<\/p>\n
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TravelChic<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nWho would publish and promote a book about lying and cheating. That\u2019s all this book really comes down to. I didn\u2019t like it either. Your review is right on!<\/p>\n
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AndyA<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nWorst money spent this year. I should have just tossed $14.99 in the toilet.<\/p>\n
TravelAddict<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nFor the most part I agree, there are a few interesting parts of the book, but the key word is few! On a whole, the book sucks.<\/p>\n
Carlie<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI stopped reading the book about 1\/3 in. It was that bad.<\/p>\n
Wendy<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nHis twitter pic makes him look like some war journalist that\u2019s just come back from Afghanistan or Syria. He\u2019s absurd and I agree, czar of bullshit.<\/p>\n
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HotelLawyer<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nThis guy will never work in the Hotel Industry again. What respectable hotel would hire him? He\u2019s a lawsuit waiting to happen.<\/p>\n
Sue.W<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI couldn\u2019t get past the first chapter.<\/p>\n
Pam<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI have worked in hotels for 34 years and at major brands like Hilton. This book is the most inaccurate picture of hotel life I\u2019ve ever seen. Sure, there are bad apples, there is partying, and goofing off, but this guy is the joke. He\u2019s no veteran, he\u2019s a baby from gen x who thinks he\u2019s entitled and an expert after 10 years. Awful book, awful writer and awful human being.<\/p>\n
Southern Hospitality<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI was going to buy the book as a Christmas gift, I won\u2019t now.<\/p>\n
TravelMommy<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nThis book needs to come with a warning about the grotesque obscenity and filth. My 17 year old wanted to read it because she wants to go into Hotel management and she actually told me she couldn\u2019t read it because it was \u201cgross\u201d in her words.<\/p>\n
JakeTravels<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI think the word you\u2019re looking for is TRASH<\/p>\n
Abraham<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nThis book should have been in the comedy section, it\u2019s a joke. Worst book I\u2019ve read in years, and yes, I tortured myself and finished the book. A.W.F.U.L<\/p>\n
Anthony G<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI can\u2019t believe anyone would publish this book. Awful<\/p>\n
Anonymous<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\nI wholeheartedly agree with your review. I was so excited by the publicity for the book and after I read it, was so let down.<\/p>\n
NotNancyDrew<\/cite>\u00a0says:<\/div>\n