Hotels are Methadone clinics for the travel addicted

A review of “Heads In Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles and So-Called Hospitality” by Jacob Tomsky.

Perhaps the best, and only good one-liner of the entire book comes on page 14: “hotels are methadone clinics for the travel addicted.” I could relate instantly when reading this line and had high hopes that this would be a good read right up my alley.

In the introduction, Tomsky says, “To protect the guilty and innocent alike, I have deconstructed all hotels and rebuilt them into personal properties, changed all names and shredded all personalities, creating a book of amalgams that, working together, establish, essentially, a world of truth.” I think the key word to this author’s note is “essentially.” As you read the book, which is excruciatingly slow, you’ll see that Tomsky drops names like Paul McCartney and Brian Wilson (of Beach Boy fame) when it’s convenient and references the Ritz Carlton and other hotels when it suits him. He talks about his first job as a valet at Copeland’s in New Orleans – there’s actually a Copeland’s in New Orleans. Doesn’t seem like he tried very hard to protect anyone if you ask me. In fact, follow the facts, do the math and you can make some really good assumptions about which hotels he’s worked for.

If you believe Tomsky, everyone in the hospitality industry is out to make a buck and will hustle a guest if it means making an extra dollar or two. Not feeling gratuitous? Watch out! Tomsky tells how unhappy hotel employees like to pay these “cheap” guests back. If you’re rude or insulting, these angry agents will make your stay a living hell. How do they do this you ask? According to Tomsky they use your toothbrush to clean the floor, assign you to a room which will ensure your phone rings all night long (don’t ever stay in a room that starts with a 1 followed by the area code of the city you’re in. In New York, Tomsky would assign guests to room 1212 ensuring that when a guest forgets to dial the 9 or 8 or whatever # you need to dial they ring your room 1-212-555-5555.)

Tomsky goes on about the hotel valets for what felt like chapters and mentions them over and over again. I’m just not that interested in the valets! Tomsky tells of squealing tires, crashes, scrapes and dings and of course, how to tip appropriately. There are stories about fights, sex, drugs (lots of drugs), lies and theft. Tomsky shares his personal escapades which include cocaine use, excessive alcohol abuse, anger counseling, love affairs and as the title alludes to, hustles. Lots and lots of hustles.

Tomsky is the king of the hotel hustle, according to himself. If he hasn’t been taught the hustle by a bellman or valet, he’ll invent it himself. While most of his hustles are pulled on guests, many are aimed at the hotels he’s working for. Throughout the book, Tomsky shares these hustles and some so-called “industry secrets” with the reader. Read the book and you yourself can learn how to steal from the mini-bar, watch in-room movies for free, and hoard amenities from the housekeeping carts and more.

Want an upgrade? Free wine? A fee waived? Tomsky says there’s no need to give an explanation, make up a story or beg…just tip the front desk agent. If you believe Tomsky, you should tip the front desk before anyone else…after all, they are the ones who control the computers.

Ever been charged for a mini-bar item you didn’t consume? It was probably Tomsky, or someone like him. He claims he’s eaten M&Ms right out of your mini-bar which is why hotels never argue about removing mini-bar charges from your bill – because they know their employees are thieves.

Tomsky comes off as racist and filled with hate as you read his descriptions of hotel guests and employees who are, unlike him, not white, don’t speak English or are in any way different. He frequently reinforces stereotypes and makes fun of foreign speakers. In Chapter 2 he mocks a couple from Japan writing, “‘Contrack.’ We Sweep Rye Hee On Froor.'” The mocking is unnecessary in retelling the story and says more about the author than the industry. Tomsky uses unnecessary and gratuitous vulgar language throughout the entire book.

If you believe Tomsky’s claims, you’ll never drink out of a glass in your hotel room again (wonder why the glasses never have water stains? According to Tomsky they use furniture polish to clean them), never forget to tip anyone – and I mean ANYONE – or complain again. The fact is, the book should probably be called Hotels: Who to Tip, How to Tip and How Much to Tip.

Perhaps my efforts to purchase the book should have been a forewarning. In one of the largest Barnes & Noble in the US, no one had heard of the book, could find the book or even tell me where to begin looking for it. Their computer said it was in New Arrivals, it wasn’t. The manager said they moved it (and by it, I mean the 1 copy they got) to travel. It wasn’t there. Someone else said it was moved to a special section because all of the holiday books were out – nope. I finally found someone who told me they took it off the sales floor because they only got 1 copy and needed to make room for new books. I ended up downloading the book from iTunes.

Self-described as a veteran of the hotel industry full of industry secrets, Tomsky has only worked for hotels for the past 10 years – according to his own website. Veteran? I don’t think so. Full of industry secrets? I’m sure some of his claims are true. Frankly I think his twitter profile is probably the most accurate self-description …Czar of bullshit. At least that’s how I felt after reading his book.

In my opinion, there’s a reason booksellers didn’t stock up on this one – it’s not a good read


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34 Responses to ““Hotels are methadone clinics for the travel addicted””

  1. SgFm says:

    And, also a self described “semi-alcoholic”. Actually, from his descriptions of his benders, I think it would safe to say he is an alcoholic.
    I think he is an angry, sad person with a real axe to grind. Anything he describes in his book needs to be viewed through that lens.
    I would not recommend the book, having read it cover to cover.

  2. Gary V says:

    The book showcases how much of an a-hole this guy really is.

    I agree with you, he’s a czar of bullshit.

  3. John says:

    Did you see the piece on 20/20 by Chris Cuomo? It spoke to the furniture polish for the glasses too.

  4. Denise L says:

    I was thinking of buying it as a Christmas present. Thanks for saving me the money!

  5. SBG says:

    Would you recommend an alternative book? Or author. Seems like an intriguing topic

  6. TravelWriterAmy says:

    The book is so poorly written. I think this guy is a joke. I totally agree with you, how can he be considered a veteran after only 10 years in the industry. I also agree that the foul language is excessive and the book should come with a warning! BORING

  7. @SBG -I haven’t found an alternative yet…but I suspect there will be others to follow.

  8. @Denise L…good call on passing on this one. Get them a season of Hotel Impossible w/host Anthony Melchiori instead.

  9. @John – I missed it!! I’ll look online. Otherwise you’ll have to fill me in.

  10. @SGFM – totally agree…angry and bitter.

  11. Alex L says:

    I heard about this book on WNYC (the New York NPR station), and was intrigued as well. I guess I’ll just skim trough if I see it at a book store.

  12. ElementaryTravel says:

    My wife read the book and told me not to waste my time on it.

  13. SPS says:

    I worked as a hotel concierge in the Orlando/Disney area for many years. I worked at the Marriott World Center, the DoubleTree Suites, the Hilton LBV and a few others. I don’t agree with anything in this book. I bought the book because I was intrigued about what he would “reveal” about the industry. He revealed very little truth.

    Yes there are people who drink, so heavily. Yes there are some drug users. Yes there are people who look for any way to make extra money. But he makes the entire industry look terrible and the majority of us are nothing like this jerk.

    I hope he never gets a job in the hospitality industry again. He’s a bitter guy who doesn’t deserve the attention he’s getting.

  14. HotelHound says:

    My guess is that he worked at the Ritz Carlton and called it out by name as a decoy. It was built about 5 years before Katrina, so the timeline would fit.

  15. GeorgeF says:

    I am so glad that 99% of the people I run into at hotels are nothing like this guy!

  16. JT says:

    My mom bought it for me and it has taken me two weeks to read 100 pages and I’m NOT a slow reader.

  17. Stephen Slater says:

    trust me, I know about burn out and this guy is burned out. He needs a break!

  18. WebFlyer says:

    I have only read 1/2 the book so far, but have to agree with your review. It is slow reading so far and I’m so tired of hearing the valet guys.

    Also, if this guy has published under his own name, his real name, don’t you think the hotels he worked with could come after him for some of his “hustles” which I prefer to call crimes?

  19. TravelChic says:

    Who would publish and promote a book about lying and cheating. That’s all this book really comes down to. I didn’t like it either. Your review is right on!

  20. AndyA says:

    Worst money spent this year. I should have just tossed $14.99 in the toilet.

  21. TravelAddict says:

    For the most part I agree, there are a few interesting parts of the book, but the key word is few! On a whole, the book sucks.

  22. Carlie says:

    I stopped reading the book about 1/3 in. It was that bad.

  23. Wendy says:

    His twitter pic makes him look like some war journalist that’s just come back from Afghanistan or Syria. He’s absurd and I agree, czar of bullshit.

  24. HotelLawyer says:

    This guy will never work in the Hotel Industry again. What respectable hotel would hire him? He’s a lawsuit waiting to happen.

  25. Sue.W says:

    I couldn’t get past the first chapter.

  26. Pam says:

    I have worked in hotels for 34 years and at major brands like Hilton. This book is the most inaccurate picture of hotel life I’ve ever seen. Sure, there are bad apples, there is partying, and goofing off, but this guy is the joke. He’s no veteran, he’s a baby from gen x who thinks he’s entitled and an expert after 10 years. Awful book, awful writer and awful human being.

  27. Southern Hospitality says:

    I was going to buy the book as a Christmas gift, I won’t now.

  28. TravelMommy says:

    This book needs to come with a warning about the grotesque obscenity and filth. My 17 year old wanted to read it because she wants to go into Hotel management and she actually told me she couldn’t read it because it was “gross” in her words.

  29. JakeTravels says:

    I think the word you’re looking for is TRASH

  30. Abraham says:

    This book should have been in the comedy section, it’s a joke. Worst book I’ve read in years, and yes, I tortured myself and finished the book. A.W.F.U.L

  31. Anthony G says:

    I can’t believe anyone would publish this book. Awful

  32. Anonymous says:

    I wholeheartedly agree with your review. I was so excited by the publicity for the book and after I read it, was so let down.

  33. NotNancyDrew says:

    I agree with you and almost all the commenters, this was just a bad book.

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